Jill applies makeup while Luca builds a lego tower on Sunday. Aug. 17, 2025 at their home in Sebastopol, Calif. “His autistic behavior is becoming really strong,” Jill said. “I understand some of his struggles, but as a parent, it can be really hard to hold patience for so long. Every day. All day. When you just feel like you need to take a break and there's no real breaks.”